Women Travelers
Is it safe for a woman to travel alone in Europe? What are some of the challenges you've faced and how have you dealt with them? Are there places women should not travel alone? How do you stay safe?
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I've felt safter traveling alone than I do in my own house
Almost everyone I know is aghast when I tell them that I love to travel alone. Last year, I spent four months on a work visa in Ireland, then backpacked around mainland Europe for two months by myself. I'm a little more reckless than most, and I wouldn't recommend that all women do some of the things I sometimes do, although I am cautious and keep an eye out for myself. When people flip out after I tell them about my solo travels, I tell them this story: For six months I was alone in Europe. Trains, planes, hostels, bars, streets at night, hitchhiking, etc. Not once did anything happen to me. NOT ONCE. In fact, I can only remember one or two times that my warning bells went off, and each time, I removed myself from the situation easily. When I got back from Europe, I hunkered down at my parents for a bit. One day, I was in bed with the flu (after burning the candle at both ends, running around Europe for six months, it was expected) when two men broke in and began to wreck the house. They piled up all of our valuables onto my parents bed in a sheet to be carried Santa-style to a car waiting outside in our driveway. Feverish, I thought the voices belonged to the pool man, but when I heard my mothers desk being overturned, I figured it was something else. One of the men entered my childhood bedroom and saw my laptop, but not me. I sprang up from the bed, screaming things that I probably shouldn't type here. Frightened, he ran from my room, calling for his partner. I chased them to the front door and slammed it behind them, hearing their tires squeal away. I called my father, and right as I told him two men had broken into the house, my cell phone died. The men had ripped our house phone from the wall, so I sat and waited for my father to come home. My poor dad called the cops, thinking there were still robbers in the house, and the cops showed up and snuck into the garage. When I heard people moving in the garage, I grabbed my hurly (Irish sporting equipment...kind of like a field hockey stick) and opened the door to the garage to find two police pointing guns at my face. The robbers ended up getting away with only moms cell phone and wallet, and they were never caught. So yes, I feel perfectly safe traveling alone as a woman. I will walk the streets and talk to strangers and cover the four corners of the earth. And when I sleep in my house, I keep my hurley by my bed.
Caitlin <email>
Brooklyn, NY USA 11/13/2008
Prague, Krakow, Berlin...Alone!
I just returned from a 10-day trip to Prague, Krakow and Berlin all alone as a single 29-year-old female. I began with a direct flight from Seattle to Frankfurt Germany then a train trip from Frankfurt to Dresden where I transferred to my train to Prague. If the airfare had been more reasonable, I would have flown direct to Prague, but I think every train ride is an adventure! While in Prague, I walked everywhere, I found the city quite small and comfortable on foot. I can say the proper shoes are a must here…I wore Merrell Plaza Mary Jane’s and did just fine. I stayed in an adequate hostel (Old Prague) recommended in Rick’s Eastern Europe guide, not the best ever but comfortable and close to everything. From Prague I travelled to Krakow, the train journey was easy until I reached my change in Katowitz, Poland, travelers be warned…there are very few English speakers and no train numbers indicated on the sign board in the station…I was able to guess my train by the departure time…but the event was a bit stressful. When I arrived in Krakow, it was already getting late in the day so I headed to my hostel…right across the street from the main station…Greg-Tom Hostel is by far the best place I have ever stayed, they treat every guest like family and provide a traditional Polish Meal on Saturday evenings not to be missed! I ended my time in Krakow with an evening of Jazz…I liked Prague, but I loved Krakow. Finally, I was off to Berlin, where I stayed in newer hostel, Wombat City-Berlin, this hotel style hostel was in a young-fun artist filled part of Berlin with cheap eats just a block or two away and a Metro (U-bahn) station right across the street. In every city I visited there was at least one other person at my hostel who wanted to see some of the same sights I did each day. I hope that this inspires others to try other parts of Europe and maybe helps others to know that independent travel can be fun!
Kristy
Tacoma, WA USA 10/21/2008
Just back from 8 week solo trip throughout Europe, check out my travel journal and pictures
Greetings everyone,
I just did eight weeks solo in Europe and prior to the trip, I made the most of the RS website and the graffiti wall and got great advice from you all. I felt well prepared when I set off.
I visited Paris, Brittany, Normandy, Giverny, Bruges, Brussels, Malmedy, The Rhineland, Rothenburg, Baden Baden, Bavaria, The Zugpitze, Salzburg, Hallstatt, Appenzell, Gimmelwald, Chamonix, Aix-enProvence, Pont du Guard, Cannes, Monaco, Lake Como, Venice, The Dolomites, Rome, The Cinque Terre, Colmar and the Alsace, Verdun, Disney...
The Rick Steves resources (guidebooks, language book, website, etc.) were invaluable as was your answers to my questions and your advice. Thanks.
I had a couple of scam attempts but was ready for them. I had a fantastic time everywhere I went, met a lot of neat people, got in shape, ate well, saw beautiful places... it was good for the soul.
Please feel free to contact me with questions and visit my online journal and see pictures.
If you'd like to see my journal and pictures go to www.visitmytraveljournal.com and enter the following info: Phone: 447924205223 Name: Margaret password: lynden
Then click on the Travel Journal button. Scroll to the bottom of the page, click page 5 and scroll to the bottom again to get to the first post and work your way up from there.
Thanks again everyone.
Cheers, Maggie
Maggie Williams <email>
Lynden, WA USA 10/15/2008
Are Germans Rude?
I have traveled extensively in Germany, north, south, east and west, and I have seldom met a native of Germany that was outright rude. German people are just like people anywhere,and they can be impatient, cranky, withdrawn, etc., like everyone else. I have found that an effort to learn the language goes a very long way towards winning people over. Understand that you will never speak it like a native, and don't worry about gettings absolutely correct. When I was in Germany, my sincere efforts to converse in German, and my disclaimers that my German wasn't very good, were met with the heart-warming encouragement that my German was in fact VERY good, EXCELLENT! and my errors in grammar or vocabulary were often hilarious to them, causing much laughter for them and embarrassment for me.
The Germans may have a brisk, get-down-to-business attitude, and are not as emotional as say, the French or the Italians,and this could be misunderstood as rudeness I suppose, but I have never felt them to be any ruder than anyone else.
karen
chicago, IL USA 10/04/2008
Plus-sized travelers in the heat
I finally found the solution for PLUS SIZED ladies who wear shorts or (better yet) skirts in hot weather during their Rick Steves' tour.
You'll be doing a lot of walking and if you're plus sized you might suffer from chaffing.
You need to where spanx (http://www.spanx.com). There are some other brands but I have only tried this one. This isn't an ad for Spanx. I just am so happy that I've fixed a painful problem!!!
They're light, breathe well, comfortable and you can be a length that fits several inches above your knees.
They eliminate(!) chaffing of the upper thighs and as an added bonus, they are supportive of your mid-section.
If you don't understand this posting then you don't have the problem that needs the solution. :-)
PS - if you don't have spanx and need a quick fix... I found that diaper rash ointment fixes the chaffing and keeps me running smoothly. The downside is the scent (if any), you must reapply, and the back of your skirt might stick to you when you sit. You can work around these problems.
April Loaris
Shoreline, WA USA 09/15/2008
Alone in Munich
Hello, I'm a 28 year old woman who just spent 3 nights 2.5 days in Munich alone. It was a great and interesting experience. My best friend and her family live in Heidelberg and after spending 4 days with them, I headed to Munich on my own. Once there, I walked everywhere around Marienplatz-to many museums and the English Garden. The only strange things I encountered were: a German clerk at a gas station who tried to give me the wrong change, I gave him a 10 and he said I only gave him a 5, and a guy who tried to "pick me up" in the English Garden. I was sitting on the grass watching a drum circle, and he came over and started flirting with me. He offered me a beer. When he went to go get it, a lightbulb went off "What if he slips a drug into the beer?" well he was over talking to his friends and I hopped on the bike I was renting and pedaled away. He may have been harmless, but the attention was unwanted since I have a boyfriend, so I left. Just something to keep in mind-don't take drinks from anyone-get them directly from the store or bartender yourself. Other than that I had a great time and felt safe everywhere I went. By the way, is it just me or do Germans seem very rude? The nicest people I met on my trip were from other countries like Portugal and Spain.
While I was in and around Heidelberg with my friends I carried all my money and cards in my wallet in a lumbar pack (they've lived in Germany 3 years and never had a problem with theft). Like a fanny pack that snaps around your waist, but sits above your behind. Of course I was aware of it at all times, and sometimes wore it in the front. While in Munich I used a money belt for my cards, cash and passport, and used the lumbar pack for extras like my trusty Rick Steves guide, hand lotion and a windbreaker. The nice thing about the lumbar pack is you can also wear it thrown across your body over one shoulder.
M <email>
Flagstaff, AZ USA 08/27/2008
travel light
I have never felt unsafe traveling alone in Europe. I dress the same as I do at home in Chicago, in jeans and sweaters etc., with no flashy jewelry or accessories, especially a big flashy purse that screams "Take me!" Maybe my urban lifestyle has given an innate awareness of my surroundings so I remain alert to possible trouble. I have never carried a money-belt, and I carry my cash for the day plus my passport and my atm card in a boring cosmetics case buried on the bottom of my bag. Of course, I have copies of my atm card, my passport, and airline tickets stashed in an inner compartment of my suitcase, and the phone number to call if my atm card is lost or stolen. I also notify my bank before leaving home, and get the number of a representive I can call should anything happen, and if I need to I can access my savings account by going to a major bank. This has never been neccessary. I like to spend the time before I go on my trip planning, planning, and planning some more, for any eventuality, and I would really hate to, and never in fact do, feel paranoid. I leave anything expensive or irreplaceable at home. I think it just takes some common sense to remain safe, and being able research everything thouroughly online these days is a huge help. If you know, for example, approximately what the cost is for a taxi ride from point A to point B, which you can research online, you'll know when your'e getting ripped off. By remaining sensible and alert, not over-excited and gullible, a solo woman traveler decreases her chances of getting ripped off or in danger. Forget being an over-packed diva and travel light!
karen
chicago, il USA 08/16/2008
to Jacqui McCargar
WOW!! even after someone offered you shelter and was nice enough to drive you to the airport you STILL hate Italy? For me that just shows that you may just be having a difficult time seeing the positive. I have been ripped off in London and NYC, AND PARIS and the people left me stranded. in my opinion you were very luckly, and yet, that is normal here in ITaly. Italian people are very accomodating and kind, and don't like to see people suffering. I am surprised that such a great experience with local people didn't seem to sink in. Oh well, have fun in France.
Kara
Rome, Italy 07/27/2008
Tampons in France
Buy your tampons at a pharmacie in France, they're not going to sell them in the grocery store. They're sold in France, don't worry, I've bought them there.
Claire
MN USA 07/10/2008
forget the tampax
I'd like to add to the "traveling/packing light" list that, in addition to the Divacup(silicone), there is also The Keeper reusable menstrual cup, which is made of natural gum rubber (latex). (The Keeper has been on the market since 1987.)
You can find more at www.Keeper.com.
Julia <email>
Oak Park, IL USA 05/27/2008
Flying Solo
I've found it helpful to wear a simple gold wedding band even though I am not married. It's especially helpful while I am working and don't want to be "picked up". I wear it on my right hand and discreetly switch to my left if I'm being bothered. I make some excuse about my husband being "just over there somewhere". It has gotten me out of a few jams. Some guys can't take no for an answer. And single woman are often seen as Green Cards to some guys looking to come to Canada or the US.
I also leave all flash jewellery at home. I don't want to play the part of "the Wealthy Tourist". I don't travel with what I can't afford to lose. That includes items of a sentimental nature and not just monitary value.
Flight Attendant
Canada 05/17/2008
Forget the tampax
Forget the tampax. Before embarking on a 5 month backpacking trip in Europe a friend told me she had been using a DivaCup, and it was a life saver on her trip. You only need one and they are sold online or at places like Whole Foods for 30 dollars. The concept of using a cup during your menstrual cycle may seem foreign at first, but trust me after the first use you will never go back to icky tampons or pads. You cant feel it, and with proper use it wont ever leak and will only need to empty it when you shower once a day. Also it is great for the environment and better for your body!
Madeline
Orange County, CA USA 05/09/2008
Women-Only Accommodation in Europe
Women-only accommodation lists as well as tourism, health and personal safety links galore for women travellers at this site:
http://www.acarnos.com/index_travel_guide/women_travellers.htm
Nicky
Oslo, Norway 04/23/2008
Tips for women traveling alone
When you're traveling alone, it's especially hard to keep a constant eye on your stuff. Even going through security at the airport is better with two people. Who's on the other end of the security belt? Don't count on the guards to watch your things, they don't know whose stuff is whose. ??Get all your bags and bins ready to go through the belt, but don't let any of it through until you're completely ready. Then hold it back until you can almost immediately walk through the metal detector, so you can meet it promptly on the other end. Neither do you want it to sit unattended on the starting side. It's tricky business, when you're alone.??
Everybody talks about the many pickpockets in Rome, Prague, Barcelona, and it's true: there are many. In those cities and elsewhere. Everybody knows to watch out on public transportation, at train stations, in the metro, and in crowds. As a professional "thiefhunter," I'd like to volunteer a few observations and tips. ??First, I hope that everyone realizes that for the most part, it is not the locals who steal from visitors*. Many cities' thieves are mostly people from outside. I hope you don't think that you'd recognize these thieves, because you won't. They blend in neatly, unless you train yourself to watch behavior. Then they will stand out.??
Do you think it can't happen to you? If so, it probably will. Do you carry a purse? If so, you're in danger. I encourage everyone to travel, see the world, and walk everywhere. But I say: stow your stuff safely before you go out so you don't have to worry about being pickpocketed. Best place to stash your valuables: in a pouch under your clothes. There's tons more at Pocketology 101 http://bobarno.com/thiefhunters/theft-thwarter-tips/pocketology-101/ and Purseology 101 http://bobarno.com/thiefhunters/theft-thwarter-tips/purseology-101/??
While on the road, leave your flashy jewelry in the hotel safe (or buried in your largest luggage, if you must). Notice that I said "flashy." Even if it's fake, leave it off. The thief can't tell it's fake. He probably won't try to grab your CZ earrings, but he gets the message you're sending: that you're an affluent tourist with a wallet worth stealing. Dress down. Don't send signals that you're worth the effort. Let the thieves go for someone else. There's lots more at Thiefhunters in Paradise http://bobarno.com/thiefhunters??
*Of course there are cities where the thieves are locals. Naples is one of them, so are Lima, St. Petersburg, and others. On Naples, you might like "How to Steal a Rolex" http://bobarno.com/thiefhunters/2008/03/how-to-steal-a-rolex/
thiefhunter <email>
las Vegas, NV USA 04/09/2008
You can get Tampax in Poland at Carrefour, so check at the Carrefour stores in Europe.
Carmel
USA 03/14/2008
Feminine hygine
I am not sure where Julie looked but I bought Tampax at Monoprix so I know you can get them in France.
Carol
Atlanta, GA USA 03/09/2008
feminine hygiene
I went to Paris last summer and found out the hard way that they do not have tampax in france. they have these odd little flat cotton circles. i did the best i could with it, but i still don't know if I was using them properly or what the heck they are called. does anyone know? and is there tampax for purchase anywhere in europe?
long story short: if you really are wedded to your tampax, you will need to pack enough for your trip. you cant buy them over there.
Julie
Colorado Springs, CO USA 03/05/2008
Nasty Toilets No More
Hey Ladies –
I am sure you must be tried of having to hover and balance like a gymnast over some disgusting, unsanitary toilet or hole in the ground just because you were born female. Well a new day has dawned. At www.REI.com I found this nifty pee cup (for lack of a better word). It’s made of plastic. Below are the specs:
• Lightweight, palm-sized device is reusable and comes with a carrying case
• Requires minimal undressing for discreet use
• Sani-Fem Freshette F.U.D.
Now you can be free to go camping, hiking, traveling, or just about anywhere without planning out a bathroom break. Make friends with a bush on a hiking trail or road side tree like a guy and stand up tall and proud and pee!!!
Happy Peeing!!!
Parker
Newport Beach, Ca USA 02/27/2008
Women Solo Travel
Thanks to everyone for your informative and helpful comments! I am planning a trip to Italy in Sept '08 and as of right now, am going alone. My family is disconcerted by this. I will be 41 by then, am 5'8", and am a 2nd degree black belt in taekwondo.
I've been reading Rick Steves Italy, have been learning Italian, doing other research, and know a native Italian who can hang with me for a portion of my trip. It sounds like being vigilant and knowledgeable is the key, and I will be.
Thanks for RE-setting my mind at ease, and for helping me convince my family that I'll be fine! :)
Robyn
Junction CIty, OR USA 02/26/2008
Women Traveling Solo
Robyn, tell your family not to be disconcerted. I'm going to Italy in November and I'll be 58 by then - just a baby compared to some other solo female travelers I've seen. This will be my 3rd solo trip to Europe. It's really a wonderful experience especially if you've had a less than positive one traveling with others. You'll be free to stay as long (or a short) a time as you like and get to eat where you choose and not feel guilty if something you've suggested fall short of your expectations. Although I absolutely love traveling with friends, being unafraid to travel alone gives you the freedom to go when others can't.
Teena
lexington, nc USA 02/26/2008
International Women's Day 2008 in London
Are there any Chicago area women heading to London in celebration of IWD in March of 2008? Want to go as a group? Let's start making plans.
Deb <email>
IL USA 12/24/2007
SW travel to Europe.
Hello.
December 2006 I travel to Italy for 2 glorious weeks.Did not have problems
in Rome,Florence,or Naples.
April/2007birthday- 12 days in Paris,so many things to see...
November/2007, 14 days in Spain-
Madrid & Granada.
I do not speak Italian,French or Spanish.
Prepare yourself to travel
(Rick's books very helpful+++)use the computer to get all the information from the web pages,print maps,make a plan and go...............
IT IS A WONDERFUL EXP.to be able to see
things you learn about them in schools.
I do travel by myself (54)and
can not wait for the next adventure.
Greece,Turkey, maybe.
juliet
ma USA 12/16/2007
Traveling solo in Italy
I will never go to Italy alone again! I was instantly homesick, and many people tried to scam me because they thought I was an easy target as soon as they heard me speak with a US accent in my very elementary Italian. However, I never felt unsafe and I'm not a paranoid person anyway. No one EVER tried to pickpocket me, but then I carried a Ferragamo handbag very tightly under my arm and it was NOT easy to open that way. I also look Italian and people did not know I was American until I opened my mouth. So maybe I was lucky. I ran into all sorts of people who were very trustworthy. But at the end of the day, I like traveling with other people better and prefer not to go on another trip like this alone. I am very cool about letting my friends do their thing if they need to break away as sometimes I need my space. But I prefer company and someone with whom I can share the experiences. I made new acquaintances and unfortunately, one of them a Dutch woman was ripped off of her backpack and went through major hassles to get her passport, money etc. Fortunately, we were all there for a class and other people pitched in to help her out.
All in all, I think as a woman it pays to be cautious. We can get ripped off or assaulted here in the US just as easily. One has to be careful and not act vulnerable. Be strong and confident and people won't mess with you. And it pays to always be aware of your surroundings. Plus, I don't like to travel in the high season, I hate crowds and it is much easier to stay on top of things when there are less people around.
Margaret <email>
Reston, VA USA 11/28/2007
Women traveling alone
I traveled around Europe for 2 full months on a Eurarail pass when I was 25 years old. Being a single young woman I felt really safe everywhere in western Europe. I went to London, Munich, Berlin, Cologne, Amsterdam, Brussels, Luxenburg city, Zurich, Bern, Venice, Verona, Milan, Nice, Paris, Cane, and Dublin. I felt safe the entire time and I would recommend that every woman travel alone at least once in her lifetime. I learned so much about myself, traveling, and about life while on this journey. I can not wait to do it again soon.
Julie Kennedy <email>
Lynnwood, wa USA 11/27/2007
Iceland, Faroe Islands
Any other travelers traveled on Iceland's ring road, especially to eastern Iceland, and taken the Norrona ship from Seydisfjordur to Torshavn in the Faroe Islands? The bus from Reykjavik to Seydisfjordur -- it takes a while, so would like to stop along the way for sightseeing anyway, and see things in east Iceland too. Would like to hear from any others traveling alone and their experiences in Iceland, and, the Faroes. It seems like it would be safe to travel there alone. Thanks!
Esmerelda
Wooster, OH USA 11/15/2007
Go for it Travelgirl!
Travelgirl, I don't think you are too young to travel by yourself.. providing you are comfortable doing stuff by yourself. For instance, you won't have an extra pair of eyes or hands to help you, you will need to haul your own stuff, etc. and you don't get to split any cost or meals.
On the plus side you set your own time and rules.
USA 10/31/2007
FEMALE SOLO TRAVEL
I just turned 18 and I'm intending to backpack solo around Portugal (Porto, Lisboa & Lagos) and Spain (Seville, maybe Madrid and Barcelona). Is it a good idea, is it generally safe especially for young girls like myself traveling alone??
editors note: All questions must be posted to Travelers Helpline
TravelGirl
USA 10/30/2007
DivaCup
I second the DivaCup. I've had mine for about 4 years and will not go back. Before the Divacup, I was one of those women who always needed "backup" even with a super tampon. I have *never* had a leak with the Divacup. I can wear it up to 24hours if necessary without problems. It might take a month or two to get used to, but it's so worth it.
Julie
LA, CA USA 10/19/2007
feminine concerns
I was going to post this over at the packing light thread, but due to the risk of offending any guys "ooked out" by period talk, I'm bringing it over here.
My #1 absolute travel necessity is a Divacup. I pack lighter than light (one carry-on and a backpack for 14 weeks!) and this little silicone cup saves me more stress than I can really describe--no packing tampons, no hunting for them in foreign language drugstores, and no opportunity for leakage in my underwear. Doing a search for Divacup will show you more about how it works, but basically it's a funnel shaped cup made of medical grade silicone that you place when your period starts, remove, empty and rinse as needed, usually about every 12 hours, then reinsert. Because the cup forms a seal in your cervix, you don't have the leakage problems of tampons or the odor problems of pads. It's absolutely sterile (and possibly safer for your reproductive tracts than chlorine-bleached tampons) and reusable indefinitely. Even on my heaviest days I never have to change it more than once in the morning and once at night...and off I am wandering the world without hunting desperately for bathrooms.
It did take a couple cycles for me to get used to it, but now I'll never switch back and use this baby every single period. It's flexible, easy to insert (which I didn't expect since I'm very small) and I never have those awful "oooh I guessed the day wrong and now I have to pull out a dry tampon, yeeouch!" moments: since the cup is silicone it can't absorb anything, and therefore doesn't leave you feeling dried out.
But anyways, it wins in the light packing department (smaller than a 3 oz. bottle!), in the convenience department, and is probably better for the planet as well when you consider the amount of sanitary products that are no longer ending up in the sewage/landfills. Take a look at some sources online which explain how it works, but take it from me: it's safe, super-easy, non-toxic, and a joy to travel with. Oh and by the way, mine was $20 online, not to mention the lifetime of savings I'll recoup from not buying other sanitary products every month.
Rissa
Washington , DC USA 10/10/2007
Women Travelers
My mom and I have taken three trips to Europe-2005-France & Italy, 2006-Germany, Austria, & Switzerland, 2007-England, Scotland, & Wales. We have felt very safe even in large cities. The only exception is Italy. We were robbed at the Milan train station. We keep our passports on our bodies at all times and just stay alert. With just some commom sense, traveling in Europe is not a problem. I've felt safer there than trying to go to a movie in the Dallas area. Obviously, you keep your eyes on your luggage at all times. Property theft is the only thing I have worried about, I have never felt physically unsafe.
Adena
Athens, TX USA 10/05/2007
Getting a Cell Phone
Just got back from London. In London I popped into a cell phone company and got a new one for 20 pounds. They made me add 20 pounds worth of airtime, so technically its 40 pounds total.
So just get it when you get there. The pay as you go is so easy to get... and not expensive either! My average call was about 3p a minute and I never had a dropped call!
USA 10/02/2007
Traveling Tricia
I just got back from Europe and I did it all by myself (ok, I had help with Rick Steves books). What a blast! I landed in Rome, then to Austria, Germany, Paris, Dublin, London, Switzerland and home. I kept a travel blog for my friends and family back home. If you are trying to decide whether or not to go... well read by blog http://travelingwithtricia.blogspot.com/
PS) It's too bad the other lady decided to leave. Theft happened to my family in their USA homes... it's not just in Italy. In fact my earings were taken here in the good o' USA at a spa. I traveled with a zipped purse in Europe (twice) and India, and I was fine. Just travel ! It's worth it !
Happy Travels ! Tricia =)
Tricia <email>
Santa Rosa Beach, FL USA 09/30/2007
Email is safe! Don't be so paranoid
Rose, emailing your information is just as safe as keeping a piece of paper in your bag (which can get stolen as well).
Sure people hack emails, but people also can break into your room (ie: a dishonest maid) and take stuff.
I've emailed a scanned copy of my passport and my cards. If need be, I can also go directly to the bank site and get my bank information online. I trust my email more than I would a piece of paper in my hand luggage or purse.
USA 09/20/2007
Safety/Theft
Theft is rampant in every corner of the world. You can't seem to escape it. It isn't likely to change anytime soon so we must change our behaviours instead.
Reading Jacqui's post troubled me greatly. I'm sorry to hear that her experience in Italy has caused her to not want to return to such an interesting and exciting part of the world.
ALWAYS wear a moneybelt. Rick is very pro-moneybelt and for good reason!
Flight Attendant
YYZ, CANCAN 09/10/2007
Safety
I had an experience on Saturday Sept Ist that I thought should be told. I arrived in Italy at Milan/Malpensa @ 2pm and took the bus to the Central Station in Milan, I got robbed while in the station after being in Italy a little over an hour! My wallet and camera were stolen out of my ZIPPED purse, I lost 4 credit cards 250 euros cash along with $60. american money, my driver's license and phone card. The American embassy was closed-all the banks in the US were closed due to Labor Day and it seems that all the Western Union's in Milan are not Western Union anymore! It took me 2 days to get some cash and change my plane ticket so I could get back home. Satying was not an option because I couldn't get a vredit card replaced and couldn't rent a car. VERY frustrating, a horrible experience! Luckily I met a nice young lady and she helped me file a police report and let me stay with her and her Mother 2 nights until I was able to get a flight. She even drove me to the airport at 3am for a 6:15 flight. No more Italy for me! I'll stick to France!
Jacqui McCargar <email>
Santa Rosa, Ca USA 09/07/2007
Keep a copy of important documents and Phone numbers...don't use e-mail for this
If you read the posting below, to email yourself copies of your important documents, please DO NOT do this, you will put yourself at great risk. The person who wrote the post had the right idea to have copies of all important info such as passport, credit card, bank info etc. But, DO NOT e-mail it to yourself. One, e-mail is NOT A SECURE means of transmitting information. Anyone has the ability to hack into an e-mail and read its content. So, if a hotel asks you to send your credit card number by e-mail ask to do it over the phone or send it in multiple e-mails. Someone would have to get into all the e-mails and piece it together...not impossible, but at least you make it more difficult to obtain your info. Next, internet cafe sites are public computers that if set up a certain way can track your passwords and such. So, it is ok to read personal e-mail, but not great for conducting business like transferring money from savings to checking. Keep a copy of your personal information in your hotel room safe if possible. Don't keep it in your purse with your wallet.
Rose
Milwaukee, WI USA 09/02/2007
Anti theft shoulder purse
I purchsed this shoulder anti theft purse at Mori Luggage the other day. It is light weight. I loved the features it offered and am bringing it to London with me. I am wearing it instead of my back pack to the museums and here is why. It will go over my head and across my hips.
Last year when I went to Paris at Xmas I went to the museums with my backpack on. Stupid on my part because I had to unlock all my locks on it and dump all my change out etc and take off my money belt. Not this year. I felt all thumbs.
diane <email>
se, GA USA 08/18/2007
Rail Transportation in Italy
Just a caveat for those of you using EuroStar Italia if you're carrying your own luggage. If you want to get back to Rome from Naples, you might reconsider the Naples Campi Flegrei embarkation trains as there is no elevator or escalator and in order to get to Track 4 (to Rome) you have to carry your bags down flights of stairs, cross under the tracks, and carry them up serious flights of stairs. If this is not an issue for you then the Campi Flegrei stop won't be either, but if it is, you might consider booking a train directly from Naples Centrale to Rome.
Ginny Anderson <email>
Pauline, SC USA 07/23/2007
Just be aware and not paranoid
Crocs has made sandals and flipflops which are supposed to be slip proof. I'm going to give it a try in September.
As a traveling petite woman, I never use those money belts. I travel as I do here in the states, with a mini backpack. I don't load up my wallet with a ton of money, just what I need for a day say $50 for a day's food plus an ATM card.
Being said that, I also am not naive to think my American way is best. If I am in a crowd, I move my bag in front of me. My bag is zipped and I am always under the impression that someone is behind me.
Have a good time, and keep a copy of your cards, passport, etc. online. I emailed a copy of my important informatoin to my yahoo account. If lost or stolen I can retrieve it at any internet cafe
USA 07/13/2007
Speaking of flip-flops...
If you're traveling to Athens, Greece, don't wear flip-flops because of the slippery cobblestone and going up and down stairs especially while visiting the Acropolis. Trust me... I had to learn the hard way. I picked the wrong day to wear flip-flops.
Kit
London, UK 07/01/2007
Traveler's Vest
I wear a traveler's vest with multiple pockets with zippered or velcro-closings. I usually wear a money belt for passport and credit card. The pockets in my vest hold daily money and other important things. The only problem is the vest can be too warm sometimes.
Swan
Napa, CA USA 06/27/2007
Money Belts
About money pouches -- I've used the money belt, but I've never actually carried my money in it. I keep my passport, plane ticket, credit card, traveler's checks, MAC card, and driver's license in it, unless I'm actually planning to use one of these. If I've taken out hundreds of dollars/euros worth, I may keep some of it in there, but generally I keep reasonable amounts of money in my purse. That way I'm not always reaching into the bag (it makes me uneasy for anyone to notice I have one), but my essential things are safe. After all, I'd be sad if I lost $200 in cash -- but I'd be devastated (or worse!!) if my passport had gone missing in Russia!
That said, I've never had a pickpocket take anything. And I did forget, after getting in line to enter a club, that they might just want to know that I was 21! After realizing all my ID items were in my money belt under my "little black dress", I stepped out of line quickly and went to a restroom!
Anon
Newark, USA 06/16/2007
Crowds
We are never afraid of crowds because of pickpockets. Each opening of our day back packs and luggage are locked.
Our money, passports and credit cards are in our neck pouches.
Here are some links that perhaps will make you feel safer:
http://www.discountluggage.com/shop/pacsafe.php
http://www.rei.com/REI-Outlet/product/751186?vcat=REI_SEARCH
JB
Antioch, CA USA 06/15/2007
Crowds?
Is it good to stay in a crowd even though crowds can be known for pickpocketers?
USA 06/09/2007
Neck worn Money belt
I traveled with my Husband to Italy March 2006, to visit our son who was in the USN and stationed in Naples. It was wonderful. One thing that he told us about handling Euros while traveling was, if you are pulling out your "day" money, always look around to see who is watching you and make eye contact. The one time I did not do this while in a hurry to board a public bus, I was pick-pocketed. Unlike american dollars, Euros change color and size for each amount, a pickpocket can see what you are handling and know what amount you are carrying. I had a small bag that I carried my glasses, lipgloss and Day money about 70-100 Euros. Which was accessed while holding on for the bus ride. My important cards, passport and such were in a money belt around my neck. I found that if I wore scarves, as all Italians do, this would cover the strap and I could use them to cover my head, if I needed to, when entering a church. It also helped screen access to the money belt. I did not let this hamper my trip and my son got to say, "I told you so...!"
Mern
Monterey, CA USA 05/21/2007
Moneybelts
I travel mostly in the summer, so this won't help everyone, as far as hiding moneybelts (although in colder weather a jacket or sweater will cover your lumpier waistline!). I have three black dresses I always take. One is very old, from Eddie Bauer and of a lightweight jersey material, but not clingy, it's sleeveless and it comes to about mid-shin. With sandals and a scarf it looks very chic (you'd have to be very, very close to me to see that it's bascially like a very old t-shirt!). I have a short sleeved version that is just about knee-length, and another sleeveless one that's a little slinkier fabric (nice for evening)and also knee-length. You cannot see the moneybelt at the waistline, since none of them are tightly fitted, and it would be impossible for a "pickpocket" to access it without me knowing!!! I really like the first two I described on traveling days- they are more comfortable than capris or even a skirt and I feel dressier. The bulk of the contents of the moneybelt should sit in the hollow of your lower back, so it really doesn't make your stomach look bulging if you position it that way. I only wear an old watch and very simple earrings.
Karen
USA 05/20/2007
Moneybelt access
Elizabeth, I have been to several major European cities, and I like to dress fashionably -- and I always carry my valuables with me in a moneybelt or neck pouch. I put around 80 Euros in a small wallet in my purse for the day's spending. If I plan to use a credit card, I find a way to discretely take it out of my neck pouch, at the table, in a restroom, or just in a corner. You don't have to make a big show of it, but I think it is better to be safe than sorry. I have never been pickpocketed but I can't imagine anything more of a hassle than to lose my credit card, passport or airline ticket while in Europe.
BG
San Francisco, CA USA 05/19/2007
Money
"I would use big bills to get the transaction overwith quickly, and employees don't like it when you do that (I got a couple of nasty comments - one lady scowled and muttered "typical American" when I did this). "
Yeah but I'll bet the twit took your money didn't she???? They should blame their pickpockets for that situation when americans and others come to their country and add to their economy by spending money.
KC
USA 05/18/2007
Female solo travelers
I am 27, single and very excited about my solo trip to Paris in March 2008. I found an apartment to rent for two weeks, which I prefer since I don't want anyone having regular access except me. I don't have to worry about hiding money in the bedpost, etc.
Like the others have said, I prefer to travel alone. I've travelled with other people many times, and while it has it's perks, my favorite parts were when I could break loose and do my own thing. I'm friendly, so I always meet people. I've got friends all over the world I've met while travelling.
I am very thankful to celebrate my youth and independence by taking this trip. Life is good.
JD
Dallas, Texas USA 05/18/2007
Money belts and neck pouches
Money belts and neck pouches are not something you drag out while in public.
You would be broadcasting to all....here is where my big money and valuables are stashed.
Before we leave the hotel we take out only enough to use for that day. If we need more we go into a rest room and take our more.
When we pull from the ATMs then asap go into a rest room and stash it.
We take out only what we can afford to be stolen.
JB
CA USA 05/18/2007
Fashion and Security - Do They Mix?
On my first trip to Europe, I wore a money belt under my clothing and didn't care for it one bit. First of all, the extra bulk made my waistline look lumpy and unnatural. Secondly, I found myself embarrassed to get my money out at the counter or restaurant because I had to dip down into my waist to pull money out. Getting correct change together turned into a virtual peep show, so I would use big bills to get the transaction overwith quickly, and employees don't like it when you do that (I got a couple of nasty comments - one lady scowled and muttered "typical American" when I did this). I also felt that wearing one put up an immediate barrier to cultural trust and I was spotted as a tacky, untrusting American at every turn. I didn't use one on the next three trips and managed just fine, though I'm still always a little worried about getting pick pocketed. Any advice on discreetly but tastefully hiding money without putting on a strip show every time the pay point comes into play?
Elizabeth <email>
Pacifica, CA USA 05/16/2007
Make yourself safe
Most any place can be safe if you make it so. Keep you money and ID separate in a zipped pocket or inside your clothes. Pickpockets are everywhere - pay attention. Where practical shoes, be aware of your surroundings. If you feel uncomfortable in a place or situation - listen to your instincts and leave or get to a group of people. Don't drink when traveling alone, it makes you much less aware and by definition less safe. Ask at the hotel about different neighborhoods or areas and how safe they are. In certain areas where that are known for higher crime rates, consider tours.
Have copies of all of your documents, credit cards etc... and numbers to call and cancel. Late at night skip walking or public transport and just take a cab.
Kathleen
Clarkston, MI USA 04/30/2007
Flip-Flops
I am also traveling to Florence in April. I will be brining 2 pairs of shoes...tennis shoes and sandels/flip-flops. Now they are sturdy leather flip-flops, not cheapo ones, but flip-flops all the same. In my opinion nothing is more comfortable. Although you do want to be sure and wear them around ALOT before your trip to be sure they are broken-in and aren't going to hurt your feat.
Happy Travels!
Melissa
Stockton, Ca USA 03/19/2007
women travelling alone
I think it depends on where you want to travel. I travelled alone to Florence in September and I had a wonderful time! People always talk about eating alone. In Europe, its not such a problem, though I did get bored. However, I met people at almost every meal! Fellow travellers are always dying to strike up conversations. I stayed safe by not staying out too late and by staying mainly in well populated areas. I also did a lot of research on where to stay and chose a nicer hotel/area then I would've had I had a companion, just for my own peace of mind. Loneliness can be beaten by choosing a couple of 1 day tours. I went on a winery tour/cooking class with accidentaltourist.com which I highly reccomend. You should go for it!
Joni
Richmond, VA USA 03/06/2007
How-To for Evenings Alone in Spain
For my 50th, I am traveling solo to Madrid, Barcelona and Seville in May.
Any tips for how to spend the evenings?
It is intimidating to me to go to a tapas bar or restaurant alone, so can anyone recommend a tapas tour or other means of being comfortable in a tapas bar? Same for flamenco shows.
If any other kindred spirits will be in those cities 5/4-5/10/07, let me know!!
leslee larner <email>
orinda, CA USA 02/25/2007
Pamper Yourself Occasionally on a Trip
I am a 64 year old woman and I have traveled alone or with other women for 23 years safely in all parts of Europe, and every year to Italy and have never had any problem, but in Naples and south of Naples, I think it's wise to be careful.
If you want to see Pompeii and Herculaneum and Paestum on your own, you certainly can go alone, and your best bet as Rick Steves says, is not to stay in Naples but to go to Sorrento, which is perfectly safe and friendly. I'd go during the main tourist season, rather than the off seasons, so that the facilities at Pompeii will all be open and walking down thru Ercolano the city to the ruins is not spooky.
Getting to Sorrento is the problem! After trying every means of transportation to Sorrento known to man in the past, including the fast boat and the Circumvesuviana train, and two absolutely hair raising taxi rides from Naples, one of which drove (believe it or not) ON the yellow line of that narrow winding two lane mountain road to Sorrento I said the heck with this, I'm too old for this stuff, and this past March I arranged for a driver, Renato Cuomo, whom I had heard great things about, and he made the difference to me in the last trip. I wanted to climb Vesuvius this time (March of 2006) without fighting with the vans at Ercolano which stop at the bars on the way back. I did. I wanted to see Cumae and Solfatara and on the way he recommended Bacoli, which I had never heard of which was just magic. I am interested in Roman ruins, and it has the incredible Piscine Mirabile, which I had never heard of, which is jaw dropping. The gate is locked and the key held by an elderly gatekeeper down the street whose grandfather before her had been in charge. If you like Roman ruins you will find it unbelievable (and it has about a million iron stairs to climb). . Bacoli also has one street which is like being plunged back to the '40's Italy and is just a magic place.
The Archeobus in Naples is difficult to find, it's just getting started, apparently, difficult to know if it's running on the day you're there, and if you only have a day and want to see Baia and Cumae and Pozzuoli, I recommend for safety and for convenience, a driver.
When you travel on your own you need to be alert 24/7 all the time and I think you are entitled to reward yourself one day of the week, and take a day trip and as Greyhound says leave the driving to us. It's amazing how invigorating it is, whether it's a day trip from Paris to the Normandy Beaches, or the Neuschwanstein Castle from Munich, or one of the day trips out of Rome, such as to Tivoli and to Hadrian's Villa, or a trip of your own direction with a driver, these trips often provide a nice oasis in a long trip. All are easily arranged online.
I also like to splurge one night for a "nice" hotel stay on a trip, the Settimo Cielo that's already recommended in Rick Steve's book in Sorrento has the most incredible views imaginable and is a great place to stay. The Santa Anna in Rome is not a splurge, but seems like one, it's in the Vatican area.
Not all women travelers are 20 years old, not all of us are Olympic athletes, but we all want to feel safe and enjoy ourselves, and there's no reason we should not. I think that if you pamper yourself on a trip occasionally, especially when you most need it, you tend to enjoy the whole trip a lot more and you can go on your own enjoyably.
Ginny Anderson <email>
Pauline, SC USA 01/20/2007