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My travel partner this time around is Juliana. We have been close friends ever since the day we met — the first day of fifth grade. I know we are compatible because I traveled with her last spring visiting colleges on the East Coast (when we both fell in love with the colleges we will go to in the fall: University of Pennsylvania for her, and Georgetown University for me) and also to Morocco last summer on the "Global Service Learning" trip we went on through our high school. It was on our trip to Morocco that we began dreaming and scheming about a graduation trip to Europe.

I think we will balance each other out well because she is very no-nonsense and sharp at figuring things out while I am well-organized and optimistic (i.e., I won't be shy about asking someone on the street where so-and-so square is, and Jules will be confident navigating with a map). We also share many interests such as Impressionist art, international politics, and resistance movements. We both want a good balance of museums by day, a couple clubs by night, and a few days of relaxing at the beach.

During the past 24 hours, I feel like my family has overloaded me a little with information.

My dad: "Make sure to call so-and-so when you arrive in Prague — he will be happy to show you around...buy an international calling card to share with Juliana each time you arrive in a new country...little grocery stores offer the best cheap, fresh, nutritious picnics...people are just going to love traveling vicariously through you while reading your blog...everything you want to see in Amsterdam is no further than 10 minutes away by bike..."

My mom: "Don't wear yourself out feeling like you have to see everything. Take some time to relax and take care of yourself, too...wear your money belt!...stick with Jules. Don't walk alone at night...you've planned your trip so well. You're so independent and I'm proud of you...don't forget to wear sunscreen."

My brother: "Watch out for the signals you are sending guys. Some guys over there are much more aggressive than what you are used to...never lose sight of your drink. Don't drink anything handled by anyone but you and the bartender...watch out for thieves in the hostels...don't trust anyone who is friendly for no reason...if someone bumps into you, watch out because you might be getting pickpocketed...observe what locals are wearing and try to match it so you can blend in."

Most of this advice I've heard before, but sometimes I get nervous when my dad recounts a time when he was charged an exorbitant amount while using a phone in his hotel room, or my brother recalls being ripped off at the launderette and having to pay 200 euros to clean a few T-shirts, or my mom reminds me we have travel insurance that would allow me to be airlifted in case of a medical emergency — yes, very reassuring.

As I ponder my packing job, I think I packed one or two outfits too many. I grudgingly sacrificed one item of clothing at a time while coming to grips with the size of a carry-on suitcase and needing to make room for guidebooks, chargers, and travel accessories including a travel towel, a sleep sack, a clothesline, and an adapter. I realize parents who serve the purpose of carrying such travel necessities for the family are a luxury I will miss.

It was a disappointment when I had abandoned all the troops (clothing items) I could emotionally afford and I still couldn't zip up my bag unless it was set to expanded size. Despite my failure at packing truly light, the general packing experience was rather pleasant. I know — I'm a nerd, but I like coordinating outfits and rolling them up together into compact rolls, I like squeezing just the right amount of shampoo and conditioner into travel-size bottles, and I like printing out all my travel information and stapling it to make one neat packet.

I made a discovery yesterday — my parents' investment in my teeth paid for braces along with a series of retainers, so I was left with about six colorful retainer cases, and I realized they are great for holding jewelry and hair things. When customs searches my bag, they will probably think I have especially terrible teeth, but really the containers will hold my earrings, my hair clips, etc.

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You are reading "The Plane: A Good Time for Context", an entry posted on 19 June 2008 by Jackie Steves.

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Jackie, maybe customs will think you're European and therefore expect you to have truly terrible teeth. You know, like Mike Myers in Austin Powers. Customs will think, "Well, I'm glad she's getting help." Stay safe and have fun!!!

Posted by: Sarah Jenkins - Jun 23, 2008 10:22 PM
Jackie--I look forward to following your adventures on this blog. It is definitely a shock how much "stuff" is typically handled by our parents, especially on trips. Will you be connecting with people you've met in Europe on your previous trips? I bet you wish that the exchange rate was the same as what it was on your dad's graduation trip!

Posted by: Liz - Jun 24, 2008 7:44 AM
Jackie, I'll be interested in hearing how the outfits you packed worked out, particularly for hot weather. The Traveler's helpline is full of questions about appropriate apparel in Europe. The helpline (and even Rick's guidebooks) could use an expert in this area!

Posted by: BG - Jun 24, 2008 1:08 PM
Have a wonderful trip! Thanks for blogging it. Nothing wrong with planning - I figure I get to enjoy my trips three times: once when I plan, once when I'm actually traveling, and again when I go through the photos. Just know that sometimes you need to be willing to cut your losses and change the plan. Oh, and congrats on Georgetown!

Posted by: Kathy_C - Jun 24, 2008 1:46 PM
Jackie, Keep us posted on what you see and do. We old folks like to live through you as you are doing what many of us wished we could have done "back in the day" And say thanks to your parents when you return. You are both very lucky. Safe travels. JB

Posted by: JLB - Jun 24, 2008 7:37 PM
You're a very entertaining and interesting writer, Jackie! I'm sure that you and Juliana will have a great time and leave a (much needed) positive impression of Americans. btw, after many trips, I still can't manage to pack lightly, so congrats to you on that!

Posted by: Mary Keen - Jun 24, 2008 11:43 PM
You are a charming young lady with a great sense of humor. I am like your mom although I never knew about the airlifting to a hospital. Your comments made my day! SO glad that you survived ALL the advice, from an advice laden mother of three adults who still get my "can't live without" reminders/suggestions.

Posted by: kristen - Jul 11, 2008 7:46 AM
Best wishes for a great trip! You will love Georgetown I graduated in 1993! Junior year abroad and your Dad's guide books were part of my first of many backpacking trips to Europe.

Posted by: Kaye - Jul 16, 2008 6:08 PM

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